Invest in yourself. Invest in each other.

Home Girls Unite membership is built by eldest daughters, for eldest daughters. A space where you can breathe, be heard, and finally put yourself first.

70,000+ community members

By eldest daughters, for
eldest daughters

Featured in BBC, British Vogue, Teen Vogue

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70,000+ community members

By eldest daughters, for eldest daughters

Featured in BBC, British Vogue, Teen Vogue

Cancel anytime

What You Get

Home Girls Unite exists because eldest daughters continue to invest in one another. Your membership is not just paying for access to content. It is helping build a future where eldest daughters have spaces to heal, grow, rest, and thrive, without the organisation itself carrying the same burnout we are working to help others overcome.
We now need sustainable systems in place to ensure ethical growth and long-term sustainability. Membership enables the organisation to fairly compensate staff and contributors, who are often eldest daughters and parentified daughters and have long been relied on for unpaid work.

TWO-TIER COMPARISON

Offer Supporting Member (£11/month) Wider Community (Free)
1:1 Rant Session (Zoom or phone) Weekly, included Monthly, accessible to all
Book Club (every 6 weeks) Included Ticketed access
Paid Events & Workshops Included Ticketed access
Moving Out Resources Accessible to all Accessible to all
1:1 Life Transitions Toolkit Included
Group Chat Included
Monthly Support Group Early registration Accessible to all
Reduced-Cost Therapy Access Included

Where Your £11 Goes

We believe in full transparency. Here is exactly how your membership supports the community:

£3.85

Team & Facilitator Pay (fair compensation for labour)

£2.75

Workshops & Community Resources (guides, workshops, support materials)

£1.65

Operations & Admin (website, software, email systems)

£1.65

Mental Health & Community Support (peer spaces, wellbeing sessions)

£1.10

Sustainability Fund (stability
and future growth)

Pay It Forward

Not every eldest daughter is in the financial position to join right now, and we refuse to let money be the barrier. If you are in a position to give, you can sponsor a membership for someone who needs it. One membership. One daughter supported. No questions asked.

WHO THIS IS FOR

An eldest daughter carrying responsibilities that were never yours to hold

A parentified daughter navigating adulthood while still parenting your parents

An immigrant daughter balancing cultural expectations with your own needs

A woman from a global majority background who needs a space that understands without explanation

WHO THIS IS FOR

An eldest daughter carrying responsibilities that were never yours to hold

A parentified daughter navigating adulthood while still parenting your parents

An immigrant daughter balancing cultural expectations with your own needs

A woman from a global majority background who needs a space that understands without explanation

WHAT MEMBERS SAY

“I really appreciate your time today. Our conversation really shed light on the fact that I do have way more power in my life than I thought, and a life where I am happy is one worth living. I realised that I am worthy of fulfilling all my needs, and it is okay to be truly happy. I apologise if I got a little too excited at the end of our conversation. I swear I haven’t felt that hopeful about my life in a long time. I have spoken to a few therapists, a few life coaches, and tried some medications over the past year and a half; nothing helped me connect to my authentic self like our conversation. I feel like hope is the strongest human emotion there is. It’s one that helps you dream again, connect to yourself, be happy, and can carry you through dark moments in one’s life. It kind of feels like a superpower! Inshallah, my words help express my gratitude for the work you guys are doing.”

"So, I was in desperate need of therapy, but we all know how expensive it can be. My friends recommended Home Girls Unite, and I was able to apply and get into their group therapy sessions for 6 weeks. It was so useful in helping me navigate so many difficult issues I was dealing with at the time. I also met some lovely girls in my cohort and am glad that some of them are still friends. I have also been able to move on with support from the team."

"This is my first time attending something like this. I came to observe and listen, but the session ended with me sharing my own experience as an eldest daughter from a Caribbean household. In mt generation, we don't really talk about these things; you just keep it moving. My siblings are grown but still call me for support. I am finally learning to put down the burden and worry about me for once."

“I really want to tell you this organisation has helped me so much. You have no idea how much you’ve uplifted me to speak and think about my experience with my parents as the eldest. Alhamdilillah, I sat my parents down and have set boundaries. It was a long, heartbreaking, hard journey, but omg the results are amazing. We’re so close. We travel together and have dinners regularly outside of a purpose dinner- dinners just because. The trust and respect have doubled on both ends. I finally got the opportunity to look past them being a parent and see them as humans with hilarious and complicated life stories. My point being I am so grateful for this page, and I know others are. If you’re ever having an event in Leicester, please let me know.”

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STILL HAVE QUESTIONS?

Once you sign up through our membership platform, you will receive login details and immediate access to your tier benefits.

Yes. No contracts, no guilt. Cancel whenever you need to.

Absolutely. Our free tier gives you monthly rant sessions, support group access, and moving out resources. You can also apply for a sponsored membership through our Pay It Forward scheme.

No. Our services are peer support, not clinical therapy. However, paid members get access to reduced-cost therapy with professionals who understand the eldest daughter experience.

From Survival Mode to
Thriving Mode.

From Survival Mode to Thriving Mode.

You have spent your whole life showing up for everyone else. This is the space where someone finally shows up for you.

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