The Home Girls Unite membership is built for eldest, immigrant and parentified daughters by eldest, immigrant and parentified daughters. A space where you can breathe, be heard, and finally put yourself first.
70,000+ community members
By eldest daughters, for eldest daughters
Featured in BBC, British Vogue, Teen Vogue
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70,000+ community members
By eldest daughters, for eldest daughters
Featured in BBC, British Vogue, Teen Vogue
Cancel anytime
Home Girls Unite exists because eldest, immigrant, and parentified daughters keep showing up for one another. We’ve built a community rooted in shared experiences, collective care and the belief that we deserve more than simply surviving the responsibilities placed on us. Our membership is about more than access to content, resources and tailored support. It’s an investment in a future where women and girls have the space to heal, grow, rest, and thrive without guilt, without carrying everything alone, and without sacrificing their own wellbeing to care for others.
| Offer | HomeGirls (FREE) | HomeGirlsPlus (Paid) |
|---|---|---|
| 1:1 Rant Session (Zoom) | Monthly, accessible to all | Weekly, included |
| Book Club (every 6 weeks) | Ticketed access | Included |
| Paid Events & Workshops | Ticketed access | Included |
| Resources | Accessible to all | Accessible to all |
| 1:1 Life Transitions Toolkit | – | Included |
| Group Chat | – | Included |
| Monthly Peer Support Group | Accessible to all | Bi-weekly + early registration |
| Reduced-Cost Therapy Access (UK Members only) | – | Included |
Sometimes, you just need somewhere to let it all out without being judged, dismissed or told to be grateful. Our 1:1 Rant Sessions offer a dedicated space to talk through what’s on your mind, unpack challenging experiences and feel heard by someone who understands the eldest daughter experience. Whether you need to vent about family dynamics, work, relationships, boundaries or a life transition, this is your space to talk it through. Sessions are available to book through our membership, subject to availability. You will be speaking with someone who has both lived and professional experience. Available Monthly for HomeGirls and weekly for HomeGirlsPlus.
A space for Home Girls to connect and contextualise their experiences through love of reading and popular media. Available for HomeGirlsPlus members, with an additional cost for HomeGirls members.
Join Home Girls Unite events and workshops designed to bring eldest daughters together, encourage honest conversations and support our collective growth. From exploring boundaries and wellbeing to sharing experiences, learning new skills, and simply having fun, these spaces let you connect with sisters who understand. Eligible events and workshops are included in the membership offer, with partnership-led events excluded.
Access resources designed with eldest, immigrant and parentified daughters in mind, helping you navigate the challenges that come with family expectations, emotional labour, boundaries, identity and personal growth. These resources are here to help you reflect, build confidence and explore new ways of approaching situations that may have felt impossible to change. Available to all.
From moving out of the family home and building your career to navigating relationships and changing family dynamics, life transitions can feel especially complicated when you’re used to putting everyone else first. Our Life Transitions Toolkit offers tailored guidance and practical resources to help you think through your options, make informed decisions and take steps towards the life you want to build. Available for HomeGirlsPlus members only.
A space to stay connected with your fellow Homegirls, share experiences, ask questions, exchange advice, and find solidarity with eldest daughters who understand. Whether you need to celebrate a win, vent about family expectations or get advice from someone who gets it, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Available for HomeGirlsPlus members only.
Join our monthly support group for honest conversations, shared experiences and collective support. Connect with other eldest daughters in a safe, understanding space where you can talk about family dynamics, boundaries, identity, relationships and the pressures of being the one everyone relies on. Come to share, listen, learn, or simply be in a room where you don’t have to explain yourself. Available Monthly for HomeGirls and bi-weekly for HomeGirlsPlus.
We know finding the right therapist and affording ongoing support isn't always easy. Members can access an exclusive 10% discount on low-cost therapy through Power to Live, helping make mental health support more accessible. Available for HomeGirlsPlus members only.
We believe in full transparency. Here is exactly how your membership supports the community:
Know an eldest daughter who deserves a little extra support? Gift her a Home Girls Unite membership! Whether it’s for a friend, sister, daughter, mother, partner or you just want to support a member of the community, you can gift a membership to someone special and give her access to a community that understands, supports and celebrates eldest daughters. To gift a membership, make a donation of £132 and complete our Gift a Membership Form. We’ll take care of the rest and arrange for the membership to be sent to your chosen recipient.
Once you sign up through our membership platform, you will receive login details and immediate access to your tier benefits.
Yes. No contracts, no guilt. Cancel whenever you need to.
Absolutely. Our free tier gives you monthly rant sessions, support group access, and moving out resources. You can also apply for a sponsored membership through our Pay It Forward scheme.
No. Our services are peer support, not clinical therapy. However, paid members get access to reduced-cost therapy with professionals who understand the eldest daughter experience.
You have spent your whole life showing up for everyone else. This is the space where someone finally shows up for you.